Let Go Of Your Fears To Be Free
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As much as we’d love to live a fearless life, we have to be realistic. There will always be things that can offset you, throw you off balance, or disrupt your routine. Unfortunately, a fearless life is not quite the same as a life without frightening experiences or events. Indeed, while it might seem contradictory, being fearless in life doesn’t mean that you can eliminate unpleasant experiences.
Fear is a reaction to a situation. The situation can be a single, one-off event such as seeing a giant spider, or whether it is an unchangeable circumstance such as dealing with a chronic disease. Fear only refers to your way of responding to the situation. Fear is an emotional handicap that affects your personal growth. More often than not, it can be so overwhelming that it seems as if you were controlled by fear.
A fearless life is a state of mind that allows you to recognize your triggers and manage them. You can’t control events in your life. But you can choose how you respond to them.
Educate yourself
The most common reason we let fear take over is that we lack the knowledge to comprehend the situation. It’s in human nature to fear the unknown. It’s an instinct you don’t want to change. Being nervous about the things you don’t know allows you to seek reassurance through education and knowledge. For instance, one word can cause anxious responses in the whole population at the moment: COVID. Covid-19 has completely transformed our lives. Yet, fear of Covid will not keep you safe unless you understand how to protect yourself. Rather than being afraid of transmission, you can learn more about preventive measures, such as how to use personal protective equipment and soap. Additionally, reading more about your immune system puts you in a better position to fight the virus – and other viruses too!
Find a way of detaching yourself from your fears
When you can’t lessen the object of your fear, you need to learn to put distance between you and your situation. Imagine that you have a stressful job. While you are looking for a new position elsewhere, in the meantime, you can’t afford to quit. Therefore, you must endure your fear. Most of us turn to coping mechanisms, such as yoga, or sometimes unhealthy solutions such as alcohol. It can be tricky to get rid of harmful fear responses because you need them to cope with everyday pressure. However, you can use mind strategies to put distance between you and your fears. For instance, hypnosis, such as the quit drinking hypnosis therapy, can help your mind stay focused. Meditation is another fantastic tool for mind healing.
Confront your fears
If you know a therapist, you have probably heard that the only way to overcome fear is through. Indeed, when you choose to avoid the things that scare you, you magnify their importance. If, on the other hand, you decide to face them, you master your fear. Indeed, no fear can rise indefinitely. As afraid as you are when you confront your demons, the initial anxiety will subside by design.
In conclusion, fears handicap you as long as you give them power over your life. Yet, mind control, exposure, and education can be the end of your anxiety and the beginning of a fearless life. Are You ready to take the first step?